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Rachell's avatar

Just like finding the silver lining in any situation, I found it possible to give meaning to all work. I was once the HR manager in small family owned food company who ran to clean the bathrooms when inspectors showed up unannounced.

That’s not to say I didn’t physically sever ties when I found a situation to be simply unjust.

Maybe a factor at play is generational. At seventy-five I look back and see that I had a symbiotic relationship with all my employers. Work was an extension of personal lives.. After work activities (sports teams, parties, celebrations of marriages, births, deaths), not to mention pensions, health coverage, and unions. I have life long friendships from various work places. What was good for the company was in fact good for me and vice versa. I wasn’t just a resource. And the customer wasn’t just a consumer. We all thrived together.

All that’s gone.

Somewhere along the line stockholder’s portfolios became the only marker of success. Employees became just another disposable resource, and the consumer became a target. So I don’t wonder that today’s labor force is compelled to actively see to its own personal needs. And that it demands a separation between work and personal life. I don’t envy them. It’s good individuals like you are out there to help. Best of luck.

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Amy's avatar

This post reminded me of something I can see clearly now that I have a Placeholder chapter to compare to my corporate chapter: Your own sense of personal progress is very closely tied to your impression of the people in your work sphere.

Do you really deeply admire your coworkers? Do you aspire to be the leaders in your workplace? Even though these people are smart and talented, it’s possible to come to the conclusion that you don’t want to be like them.

That’s what happened for me—I was not inspired by the people I spent the majority of my time collaborating with.

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